In Your Relationship, 'Hey Four Eyes' Is Not An Insult

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In Your Relationship, 'Hey Four Eyes' Is Not An Insult

Tune Up Tuesday

Tune Up Tuesday – a little nugget you can use to tune up your relationship every Tuesday morning around 8:20.

 

This week – if you grew up wearing glasses like I did, you may be familiar with the insult – “Hey, four eyes.”  Why, in a relationship that’s less of an insult and more of a compliment...

 

Your partner is not you.  They don’t experience the world in the same way you do and they will not always react to it in the same way you do.  That’s because they have a different set of eyes.  And you have access to those eyes.  When you’re in a relationship, you have 4 eyes.  And while the way your significant other sees things can be frustrating at times, the tune up is to instead… see this as a great gift.  You have a second set of eyes with which to see the world.  How incredible is that!  And those eyes, combined with your eyes can give you a much more beautiful view.

 

In addition to hosting mornings on B105.7, Sean Copeland is studying to be a therapist.

 

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