Sometimes we can fall into a tit for tat pattern. I’ve done this for you, so you owe me that. Or you may subconsciously ask in your relationship all the time is: “How can I get what I want?” Or “How can I get my needs met?” While it is important to have your needs met in a relationship, imagine if you more frequently asked the question… “How can I serve my partner today?” Or, “What needs of theirs can I meet today?” An attitude adjustment to one of service and selflessness… can, at times be a game changer.
That’s this week’s Tune Up Tuesday – a little nugget you might be able to use to “tune up” your relationship. In addition to hosting this morning show, Sean Copeland recently completed a degree to be a therapist.
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